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Book club discussion questions-While My Sister Sleeps by Barbara delinsky

While MY Sister Sleeps

by Barbara Delinsky

From The Jacket: Molly and Robin Snow are sisters in the prime of their lives. So when Molly learns that Robinóan Olympic athlete and the favorite childóhas suffered a massive heart attack, the news couldnít be more shocking. At the hospital, the Snow family receives a grim prognosis: Robin may never regain consciousness. Feelings of guilt and jealousy flare up as Robinís family struggles to cope and their relationships are put to the ultimate test. Itís up to Molly to make the tough decisions, and she soon makes discoveries that destroy some of her most cherished beliefs about the sister she thought she knew. Once again Delinsky brings us a masterful family portrait, filled with thought-provoking ideas about the nature of life itself, how emotions affect the decisions we make, and how letting go can be the hardest thing to do and the greatest expression of love all at the same time.

*Author Website: http://www.barbaradelinsky.com/

*Other Books by Same Author: ďThe Secret Between UsĒ ,ĒFamily TreeĒ, "The Woman Next Door", "Coast Road", "Three Wishes", "For My Daughters", "More Than Friends".

*Discussion Questions

1. How would you characterize the relationship among Robin, Molly, and Chris? Does Chris play a different role because he is a son? How does the Snow family compare to yours?

2. How is Molly transformed during the week after Robinís heart attack? What does Molly discover about herself and about the range of emotions she and her sister evoked in each other?

3. What is at the root of Kathrynís controlling behavior? How did her past, including her experience with her own parents and her art teacher, influence her personality? Who has more power in the marriage: Kathryn or Charlie?

4. Discuss Snow Hill and what it means to Mollyís family. What makes the Snows good at nurturing plants but not as good at nurturing one another? What kinds of healing does Molly experience through her work at Snow Hill?

5. What do Charlieís religious beliefs say about him and about the differences between him and the other members of his family?

6. As parents, what family memories do Chris and Erin create for their daughter, Chloe? How does their approach to parenting compare to Charlie and Kathrynís?

7. How does Alexisís illness shape the novelís storyline? What parallels exist between her situation and Kathrynís state of denial?

8. How much is Nick entitled to know, as a reporter and as a friend of Robinís? Is Robin entitled to less privacy because she is a public figure, with a wide circle of fans who are concerned about her?

9. What determines whether Liz will be a threat to Chrisís marriage? How is Lizís role in the novel different from Peterís? How much does the past matter in a marriage, especially events that took place before the wedding? friend of Robinís? Is Robin entitled to less privacy because she is a public figure, with a wide circle of fans who are concerned about her?

10. What was it like to read Robinís journal after hearing so much about her? Captured in her own words, how does her life compare to other peopleís impressions of her?

11. What does Kathryn have to do in order to let go? What does it take to help her see the truth about her circumstances --- and Robinís?

12. How is Marjorieís family affected by her dementia? What do the connections among Marjorie, Kathryn, and Molly show us about mothers and daughters? What traits, emotional and otherwise, are passed from one generation to the next in While My Sister Sleeps?

13. Why is David willing to look out for Alexis? What makes him such a caring teacher? What makes him such a tough opponent against Nick?

14. Ultimately, what legacy does Robin leave for her family? What intangible gifts does Molly inherit from her sister?

15. Discuss the medical issues raised by Robinís story. Is it unethical to keep a child from knowing the identity of his or her biological parents? How would you have handled the end-of-life-care questions raised by Robinís heart attack?

16. How do secrets affect the characters in While My Sister Sleeps and in Barbara Delinskyís other novels? When is it best to let a secret remain hidden? When is it best to reveal the truth?

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