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Where'd You Go Bernadette By Maria Semple

Where’d You Go Bernadette

by Maria Semple

PBR Book Review:

Where’d You Go Bernadette by Maria Semple is a fresh, funny, and original book I listened to on audio. It centers on Bernadette, a kooky wife and mother, who at one time was an accomplished architect. She’s now an agoraphobic who secretly uses an online assistant from India to help manage her life. Bernadette tries to cope with life's demands and to fulfill her role as wife and mother, but her life begins to unravel. Here the odyssey begins, the pressure mounts and Bernadette flees. Where did she go and why? Her young daughter Bee is convinced there must be a reason and she is determined to find her. Although it’s a cheerful and funny story, at its core, it’s a heartwarming story about the delicate relationship between a mother and daughter. The book is filled with loveable, flawed, well- developed characters whose struggles are universal and relatable. Semple provides an emotionally rewarding book that should definitely be on your to be read list. Share it with your Book Club.

Book Club Talking Points:

There's much to discuss with this book. It touches upon many of the universal struggles everyone experiences at one time or another in life. The challenges of marriage, work, community, raising a family, and the mother/daughter bond are a few examples of topics in this heartfelt book. How we handle them and get through to the other side is another.

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*Discussion Questions

1. Where’d You Go, Bernadette is told from the point of view of a daughter trying to find her missing mother. Why do you think the author chose to tell the story from Bee’s perspective? What light does it shed on the bond between Bernadette and Bee?

2. What are your thoughts on Bernadette’s character? Has she become unhinged or has she always been a little crazy? What, if anything, do you think sent her over the edge? Have you ever had a moment in your own life that utterly changed you, or made you call into question your own sanity?

3. When Bernadette relocates from Los Angeles to Seattle, she must cope with being a transplant in a new city. Have you ever moved, or even stayed put but switched jobs, and had to adjust to an entirely different culture? What was it like?

4. The idea of going to Antarctica becomes too much for an already frazzled Bernadette to bear, but the trip itself, surprisingly, turns out to be exactly what she needs to get back on track. How do other characters in the novel experience their own breakthroughs? Which character is most transformed?

5. How are Audrey Griffin and Bernadette Fox more alike than they realize?

6. Bernadette often behaves as if she is an outsider. Do you think she is? If so, do you think her feelings of being an outsider are self-imposed, or is she truly different from the other members of her community? Do you ever feel like an outsider?

7. The book has a very playful structure. Do you think it works? Why do you think the author chose it rather than a more straightforward, traditional structure? Think about other books with unusual structures and how their formats influenced your reading experience.

8. What do you think of Bernadette and Elgie’s marriage? Is it dysfunctional? Is there real love there? How has their marriage changed over time? Think about romantic relationships you’ve been in that have evolved, positively or negatively, and why.

9. Where’d You Go, Bernadette is, at its core, a story about a woman who disappears, both literally and figuratively. Were you able to relate to the book? How and why? Do you feel Bernadette’s disappearance was unique, or do all women, in a sense, disappear into motherhood and marriage?

Book Summary
Back Bay Books; Reprint edition (April 2, 2013) - Fiction - 352 pages
Bernadette Fox is notorious. To her Microsoft-guru husband, she's a fearlessly opinionated partner; to fellow private-school mothers in Seattle, she's a disgrace; to design mavens, she's a revolutionary architect, and to 15-year-old Bee, she is a best friend and, simply, Mom. Then Bernadette disappears. It began when Bee aced her report card and claimed her promised reward: a family trip to Antarctica. But Bernadette's intensifying allergy to Seattle--and people in general--has made her so agoraphobic that a virtual assistant in India now runs her most basic errands. A trip to the end of the earth is problematic. To find her mother, Bee compiles email messages, official documents, secret correspondence--creating a compulsively readable and touching novel about misplaced genius and a mother and daughter's role in an absurd world.
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