Theo of Golden

GENERAL QUESTIONS

1. What was your overall impression of the book? Strengths and weaknesses?

2. Who was your favorite character? Why?

3. What was your favorite scene in the book? Why?

4. If there were a sequel to the book, focusing on one of the characters other than Theo, which character would you want it to be?

5. Of all the friendships that Theo forged in the story, which interested you most as a reader? Which revealed most to you about Theo?

THEME: PRESENCE/ INCARNATION/ ATTENTIVENESS

6. Theo insisted on personal presence and participation when he carried out his bestowals. Mrs. Gidley suggested at one point that he do them all at one time with a bit of fanfare. Why do you think Theo was so insistent on doing it the way he did, in person, in secret, one at a time?

7. Identify instances of Theo's attentiveness. Did he have specific practices that nurtured attentiveness?

8. How do we develop a habit of attentiveness? Are there benefits or pleasures that come with being attentive and present?

9. Technology has little place in the story. Would Theo's invitations have been as meaningful if they were sent digitally instead of handwritten?

THEME: SADNESS

10. Theo speaks of "good sadness." What do you think he meant? What role did it play in his life?

11. What might "bad sadness" look like in contrast?

THEME: GLADNESS/ PLAYFULNESS

12. Theo is described as playful yet purposeful. What moments highlight this?

THEME: BEAUTY

13. How did Theo cultivate a love of beauty in his life?

14. Identify moments when beauty inspired him.

15. Have you experienced moments like that in your own life?

16. How can we encourage appreciation for beauty in others?

THEME: CHANGE

17. Did Theo's story inspire you to change in any way?

Book Club Talking Points:
Theo of Golden is a thoughtful, character-driven novel that invites reflection on connection, attentiveness, and the power of listening.