Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage

1. Belle comes from a wealthy family and was financially secure when her marriage ended. How did this affect her divorce journey compared to someone less fortunate?

2. James left Belle during the COVID lockdown, leaving her at home with two children. What would you say to both Belle and James about the timing of their separation? How did it affect Belle's decisions?

3. In the book, Belle is very open about her marriage, revealing personal details. Were there any details you would have kept private? How might her honesty help others going through the same heartbreak?

4. What qualities did you most admire in Belle as she navigates this journey of self-discovery? What did you think of the reactions of friends and family, especially James' family?

5. The story was about both James and Belle. Why do you think James supported Belle and agreed to the story being published?

6. Did the book alter your perception of divorce or long-term relationships in any way? What surprised you the most about their divorce?

7. Before reading Strangers, what were your expectations or assumptions about divorce? Did it change over time? If so, what specifically made an impact?

8. In what ways do you think Belle and James's upbringing brought them to this point? Were there any warning signs they may have missed?

9. In the book and in interviews, Belle talks about making a sandwich for James when he comes to the house to talk to the children about the divorce. What does that gesture say about their relationship? Would you have made the sandwich?

10. Do you have more insight or empathy for couples going through divorce?

11. If you had an opportunity to have a conversation with Belle after reading her book, what would you ask her? What advice, encouragement, or observations would you share?

Book Club Talking Points:
Themes of love, betrayal, identity, resilience, and the evolution of self after loss. The complexity of long-term relationships and the impact of sudden change.