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The Life Cycle of the Common Octopus |
by Emma Knight |
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Discussion Questions |
1. Pen is obsessed with learning the truth about her family and their secrets yet is trained to be polite. How does she begin to resolve these conflicting drives? 2. At university, Alice wants to "save [Pen] from herself" by encouraging her friend to be bold and carefree, now that Pen is away from the influence of her parents-and it's true that Pen becomes more relaxed throughout the course of the novel. Is it Alice who helps her along the way, or do other characters contribute? What do you see as key moments in Pen's growth? 3. This is a book about friendship, motherhood, first love, familial bonds, generational progress, and self-reliance. Which, in your view, is the central relationship of this story? 4. Carl Jung has said that nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on a child than the "unlived lives" of the parents. Do you agree? How do the unachieved ambitions and frustrated hopes of the parent characters in this story affect their children, and how (if at all) do the children get out from under these influences to live their own lives? 5. Anna is disappointed to receive expensive earrings from Ted as a Christmas present, because she intuits that the gift suggests he has stopped seeing her for who she is (someone who doesn't wear showy jewelry), and has instead begun to see her impersonally, as a "wife." Do you think she was correct? What kind of gift do you think she would have preferred? 6. What does Pen gain from her time running errands with Christina? 7. When Jo was forced to move schools after her affair with Sylvia Clarke, her parents try to keep her in the closet. It's Fergus, though, whose support "had made it possible for her to refuse to lie about who she was." Do you have someone in your life who helps you be the most authentic version of yourself, even-or especially-when authenticity is difficult? 8. Even though Pen knows what's going on between Alice and Julian, she chooses to stay out of it, and advises Jo to do the same. What do you think of Pen's choice not to talk to her friend about the affair? What would you have done in that situation? 9. Have you ever been curious about an unexplained part of your family history? Did you pursue answers, or let sleeping dogs lie? 10. If you had to sit next to any of the characters in The Life Cycle of the Common Octopus on a crowded train (the quiet car is full, I'm afraid), who would you choose and what would you talk about? 11. The i Discussion Questions by the Publisher Book Club Talking Points:
The novel centers around a young woman navigating university life, family secrets, and first love. It follows her journey of self-discovery and the complex relationships she forms with others. It also explores different forms of motherhood, the complexities of parent-child relationships, and the impact of past choices on future generations. |
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